BELINDA VAN DER RIET

Age: 40
Birthday 13 September 1968
Reading right now: The Boys of Everest by Clint Willis
All Time favorite books:

Pillars of the Earth by Ken Follett and April Fool’s Day by Bryce Courtney

Favorite band / music Blue October
Favorite film: The Fisher King
Favorite place in the world: Chamonix in the French Alps – a very special place

What ERA of history would you love to have lived in.
Not much into history so I’m quite happy right here and right now.

Most admired female celeb / hero, etc.
Have no desire to change who I am.
Where do you go when you close your eyes or meditate:
To Sleep! I don’t meditate, but when I do ‘think deeply’ my thoughts often go to lost loved ones. I have a major mental thing about death and while I know it’s going to happen to all of us, I cannot find peace in the aspect of death.  This probably attributes to why I tend to live life to the maximum while I can.
What makes you laugh?
Generally, when I do something stupid, like yesterday, I was having shooting lessons for a firearm license … once finished shooting the target, which was stuck on a cardboard box, I decided to turn the box around to put on new targets – not realizing that the bullets OBVIOUSLY went right through the cardboard box and out the other side.  I found my stupidity extremely amusing.
Most embarrassing moment?
Can’t think! – Probably been too many.
Life Motto:
LIFE IS GOOD – LIVE IT NOW!
About me:

To be honest, I am a very shy person when it comes to meeting new people….(which often leads to people thinking I’m a bit of a snob)….but when I get to know people then I relax and become myself. 
I was born in Pietermaritzburg but was raised and schooled in Stanger on the North Coast.  I have been married for 10 years now and have 2 children (Jarred 8, Ashlea 4) and I have a step-son (Byron 22 years old).  My hobbies/interests are mountain & road biking and hiking/ice or rock climbing/mountaineering.  My biggest wish in life would be to have more time….I always seem to be playing a balancing act between my family/work and finding time to pursue my own interests.  It’s very difficult to perform at your best and have high expectations from yourself but not have the time to train and keep in top condition for the events.  This is a problem I’m sure all my fellow climbers experience too.  If I had more time, I would love to try some adventure races and also get into paddling.  I guess I demand quite high standards from myself and expect the same in the work place.  Honesty is a huge issue for me and am very intolerant of dishonesty.  I have been told I’m pretty much a “black & white” person i.e.: it’s either yes or no….there is no grey area.   Having just read the last sentence, it sounds like I’m a bit of a power freak – but I’m actually pretty straight forward.  I guess I’ve learnt this from growing up with 4 brothers and a working/single mother – boys don’t play mind games or become manipulative…they’re just straight down the line which is what I appreciate.